I went on a random date with somebody. This was back in Winnipeg, back in the day, I was in my teens and that was the most terrifying thing I’ve ever done. We met online, and then met up in the north end of Winnipeg. The lack of safety came from the whole scenario—meeting someone you don’t know, that person was a bit older, I was younger, I couldn’t tell anyone I was there because I wasn’t out. I’m South Asian and I couldn’t come out to my family, due to shame and honour. You weren’t safe at home, you weren’t safe in the community, you weren’t safe at school, so where do you find safety?